I love the community prayer group I belong to. The group itself was and is an answer to prayer as its members are like me. I actually "fit" in this group. My thoughts are not odd. What I am learning from God, about God and what God is sharing about what He is doing in the community isn't viewed as trivial, weird, outlandish and I'm not greeted with "eye rolls." We all want to live out our lives for God's purposes, His sovereign rule and kingdom. We all want to see our community released from the oppression it's under and move forward into living life... a life with God. We all want to have the "love God; love others" be a life of living action reflecting God's glory. We see this movement going beyond our community, state, region and country.
The group is keen on how to come along side people using languages that others can understand. Breaking down the barriers created by religion and church language or Christianese. We discuss and practice how to become disciple makers where we live life with people so they can see God and can follow Him in a way that matures their faith. As Christians, we're so good at converting people but then we just let them go after that. Sort of "catch & release" fishing rather than catch and keep. I believe Jesus is not a "catch & release" fisherman so why are we?
One of our members, Andy and his wife Suzanne, spend their lives living out disciple making. They are true come-along-siders in the most amazing way exuding patience, grace, love and genuine concern for those they mentor and do life with. In group, Andy says little but, when he speaks, it's worth writing down because he strips off all of Western Christianity and church traditions to get to the heart of the matter. I love it when Andy speaks because he shares how he talks with nonbelievers and those struggling with faith in Jesus Christ. They don't talk in big Christianese to those they mentor and I love the way they use ordinary words to describe critical Christian doctrine.
The big word concepts that always irritate me are "sin" and "Gospel." How do you refer to "sin" in laymen terms using the words that will resonate with people giving them the Ah-ha! moment without turning them off? And what is "good news" these days anyway? The Gospel is translated literally into "good news" so if someone doesn't believe in "sin" or doesn't thinks he needs redemption, then how can the news of salvation be good?
Recently, Andy said something that is so simplistic, so targeted, so profound that I just love it. Since he uttered the words, I cannot stop thinking about his commentary. It's rhythmic in delivery so a person can easily remember it; a very rabbinical approach where rhythms were used to assist in memorizing God's Word. It's very today while also being accurately Biblical. It cuts through the misperceptions people have about God and the Trinity. It's laser perfect.
The good news is:
God is for you
God is with you
God is in you
God is for you. He's not against you. He's not "out there" watching your every move to judge you, condemn you, punish you. He is on your side, the side of wanting to be a part of your life and you a part of His life. He won't hold your failures against you instead He wants to erase those failures off of your balance sheet of life. Think of it this way, if God is omniscient and knows that ultimately you will not choose Him and, if He really is watching your life to judge you, then why would He continue to bless you during your life? Why would He provide you with breath in your lungs, sun and rain, food and shelter, people assisting you? Wouldn't He simply know the outcome of your life and therefor orchestrate it to reflect your ultimate choice in Him? Instead He causes the sun to rise and the rain to fall on the good and the evil. He loves unconditionally, freely and generously. God is for you. (Matthew 5:43-48)
God is with you. He wanted to be with you so much that He became a human being named Jesus to live life just like the rest of us. He corrected our misinterpretations of what others said He is. He is concerned about the smallest detail as well as the biggest picture and goals. He is an involved parent, leader, friend, confidant and has not left us alone. We see this in faith history when God literally camped out with the Israelites for 40 years in the desert in the form of a pillar of smoke by day and pillar of fire by night. In that time, God provided daily food, protection, light, guidelines for community, direction to travel and stayed with the Israelites until He brought them to the land He promised their forefather Abraham. That time of history was: "I promised this to you. I want it for you. Even though your forefathers didn't step into the promise, didn't claim it themselves, I am going to ensure it is fulfilled and lead you there Myself." When Jesus physically walked the earth, He lived a life stripped of privilege and status so as not to give a misperception of who God is, what He wants for us and how He wants us to live. He spent most of His time clarifying the misunderstandings of men concerning God. ("You have heard it said but, I say... but the Kingdom is... but God...") And today, I cannot deny that God is with me as He continues to answer prayers that I only think to myself; prayers I don't even utter aloud. He continues to provide guidance in things from small decisions to big events providing solutions that only can be attributed to God. He continues to reveal and explain through others, Scripture, dreams - through the ordinary and the spectacular. He continues to fulfill the promises He made to me and our community. God is with me and with you. (Matthew 28:18-20)
God is in you. When we choose to accept that there is a God and that God wants us to live a life with Him, He deposits His Spirit in us. Now the Spirit begins to operate within you, sharing the knowledge of God, His guidance, correction, wisdom. This is why God knows my prayers without uttering them because His Spirit is within me. This is how God provides me correction when I go sideways and act in ways that do not reflect Him. In human terms, we think it's our conscience and our ability to know right from wrong. Our moral conscience. Created in His image, we all possess a conscience and some knowledge of right and wrong. However, when we accept Him as the One and Only God, He gives us a part of Him and His Spirit now lives with us and imparts to us more of God and who God is, allowing us to live a more fulfilling life. God is for you. God is with you. God is in you. (John 14:16-18)
Without throwing Bible verses at people. Without providing lengthy explanations of God, faith or Scripture to people who don't know God and are questioning the existence of a "higher being", you can just come along side someone and as the opportunities present themselves, you simply say, "God is for you." Later... "God is with you." And perhaps later, "God is in you." No need for anything more to be said; the seed is planted. Just like Andy's words rolled around in my head since he said them, the words will roll around in the minds and hearts of those we come along side.
When Chauncey, Lauren and Sarah were questioning the existence of God, I realized that the more I espoused about God, the more my explanations became sermons and commandments, the more I pushed them further from God which was just the opposite direction they each needed to go. Instead, God had me simply say at times of victory, accomplishment, small wins: "God is good." That's all. Nothing more. "God is good." In those three words I was saying, 1) there is a God, 2) He is a good God and wants the best for you, 3) He is with you, 4) He comes to your aid, 5) He loves you. Etc. One day, Chauncey called me on his car speaker phone, while driving home with his work team, after successfully delivering a presentation to his Board. He wanted to hear, and wanted those in the car to hear, "God is good." He was attributing his success to God's blessing and provision. Shortly after that time, Chauncey acknowledged that there is a God and that Jesus in fact was real, is real and paid the debt to God that Chauncey could not. In Christianese that is called salvation and it's a glorious thing. God is good.
Since that time, my family has become some of the best come-along-siders I know. They encourage me with their lives and I learn from them, too.
In the whole "love God; love others" life that we are called to live, it's important that we live out that faith in everyday and ordinary ways, not placing undue burdens on people setting expectations for them that we cannot meet; speaking in languages that are not valuable to them. Placing stumbling blocks before them so they cannot step towards God. Instead, we need to come along side our family, friends, neighbors and enemies living lives that are gracious, speaking words that are understandable. Helping them see God and know that God is for you, God with with you and God is in you. God is good.
Hawk Nelson "Drops in the Ocean"
Lecrae "We engage culture for Jesus"
